Good morning,
You did sound judgemental and sour - this is the first
difference between us. The second is our age - if you are really only 26, then
I am 12 years older than you, which means more experience as a start and
judgement from the families on both sides as the next step.
Mine will accept at a point the choices I make. I am not
sure that yours ever will.
Yes, age is a number, but sometimes numbers matter a lot.
A long-term relationship is not based on "I want a
long-term relationship". It is based on communication and balance. Last
night you proved that you haven't learned to accept "no" as an answer
or to listen to the other side.
I read all the time - both fiction and non-fiction. What was
the last book that you read and when?
I did something new for the first time on Sunday - when was
the last time you did something new? And I can add - how many new things have
you done recently?
You have written that you are agnostic. Well, I am Orthodox
Christian, raised in a secular state, but it appeared that I know more about
the Indian culture and some traditions than the Indian engineer I dated.
I am not religious, but I am spiritual and I have already
had arguments with another former boyfriend about it. Can you accept it and
respect my choice to continue educating and developing in that sphere?
I listen to rock music and go to live rock concerts. Can you
accept that? Would you join me?
I love to tango and I need a partner for it. Can you dance?
I'll stop here.
Based on what I've written above - how many similarities and
how many differences have you found? How do you intend to cope with and balance
the differences? Are you ready to do it???
Have a nice Wednesday
